Hey friend, let's have an honest conversation about that job search you've been putting off. You know the one – where you've got the tabs open, maybe even drafted a cover letter, but something keeps holding you back. That "something" usually sounds like: "I'm not qualified enough," "What if I bomb the interview?" or my personal favorite, "I'm waiting for the right time."

Here's the truth: there is no perfect time. That "sign" you're waiting for? It's probably not coming. And you know what? That's actually good news.

Let's break down what's really happening when we wait for the "perfect moment":

We're not actually waiting – we're hiding. From what? Usually from the possibility of rejection, from having to be vulnerable, and from having to admit to others (and ourselves) that we're trying something that matters to us.

Think about it: what's the worst that could happen if you apply? Sure, you might not get the job. They might think you're not the right fit. And yes, that would sting – I'm not going to pretend it wouldn't. But here's the real question: wouldn’t that put you where you are right now, but you’ve added the extra steps of self-rejection?

Here's what I've learned from working with countless clients: the people who succeed aren't the ones who feel ready. They're the ones who feel scared and do it anyway.

So here's your permission slip to:

• Apply for the job while being scared
• Tell a friend about your plans (hello, built-in accountability and support system!)
• Focus on just the next step instead of the whole journey
• Take care of yourself after taking that scary step (yes, binge-watching your comfort show counts)

Remember: You don't have to transform into a fearless warrior who never doubts themselves. You just have to be brave for the few minutes it takes to hit "submit" on that application.

Ready to take that step? Pick ONE job to apply to this week. Just one. That's your only assignment. Everything else is bonus points.